


The cost of your own life, as they suck you dry. It's just like sort of not a good idea."Īt another point in the talk, Khilanani said: "This is the cost of talking to white people at all.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall. "We are asking a demented, violent predator who thinks that they are a saint or a superhero, to accept responsibility. We keep forgetting that directly talking about race is a waste of our breath," she said. "They feel that we should be thanking them for all that they have done for us. She went on to discuss white people and talking about race. Like I did the world a f**king favor," Khilanani said during the talk. "I had fantasies of unloading a revolver into the head of any white person that got in my way, burying their body and wiping my bloody hands as I walked away relatively guiltless with a bounce in my step.
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Weiss also posted a poster of the talk online, showing the lecture’s title to be "The Psychopathic Problem of the White Mind.Read more How to Watch, Live Stream Trump's Speech at North Carolina GOP Convention Her comments surfaced when audio of the talk was posted on the substack of former New York Times opinion writer and editor Bari Weiss on Friday. They did not respond to those requests for comment. Khilanani and the director of the Institute at Yale where she spoke. "White people feel that we are bullying them when we bring up race."Īnother outlet reached out to Dr. "White people are out of their minds, and they have been for a long time," she said. Khilanani talking about race issues with whites was "useless because they are at the wrong level of conversation." She also said she "systematically" distanced herself from her white friends "around five years ago.ĭr. "Nothing makes me angrier than a white person who tells me not to be angry, because they have not seen real anger yet.” Like a goddamn timer, you can count it down. “We are calm, we are giving, too giving, and then when we get angry, they use our responses as confirmation that we’re crazy or have emotional problems.Īdding: "It always ends that way, happens every time. She opened her talk by saying: “I’m gonna say a lot of things, and it will probably provoke a lot of responses, and I want you to just maybe observe them in yourself. The lecture also aimed to "understand how white people are psychologically dependent on black rage." Khilanani’s Yale lecture was to talk about certain "learning objectives" like the "set up white people’s absence of empathy towards black rage as a problem." Khilanani has trained at Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research, New York University-Langone Medical Center, and at New York Presbyterian Hospital-Weill Cornell. “Does it matter? Has anyone ever told you, that you can’t because of who you are? You feel on the outside, at the edges, not in and not out…Īdding: “I am interested in every single person who has a story that has yet to be told.”ĭr. Conservative, Liberal, Old, Young, Blue, Black, CIS, Trans, Asian, Fat, Skinny, rural, urban, B-baller, international, ex-pat, Rapper, Queer, White, Muslim, Biker, Rocker, Lax player, Atheist, Trump Supporter, Darwinist, Trump Hater. “Whoever you are, and wherever you come from, our world is better because of you. Aruna Khilanani is a forensic psychiatrist and psychoanalyst with a practice in Harlem, New York.Īccording to her website, she says she is “interested in people who feel they are outsiders for various reasons.”Īdditionally, she regards her office as the “meetpoint” writing: “The meetpoint is a humble sanctuary for ALL kinds of people. The New York psychiatrist’s comments were presented at Yale's Child Study Center on April 6 as she was leading a lecture.ĭr. DOCTOR Aruna Khilanani has been getting slammed on social media after claiming she had fantasies of "unloading a revolver into the head of any white person that got in my way."
